When Melanie left I felt sad, partly because I would miss her and partly because I wanted us to keep working on the art studio!!! We put one of the 8 paned windows in before she left, and I put the other one in the next day with the help of my sister, niece, and daughter.
Today I decided to make needed repairs on the structure surrounding the area intended for the French doors and also create a space to install the doors. I was so happy that I had the strength and energy to work on this section without Melanie helping me. My son Ryan helped when I needed an extra hand, and so did my niece and her son. It doesn’t look like much yet but I can see the finished product in my mind, and this cottage art studio is going to be beautiful!
Seeing and helping parents work on projects like this is so good for kids, too. One nice thing about homeschooling is the kids are home to see and help with whatever project we are doing. Melanie says watching and helping me work on projects while growing up gave her the confidence to tackle similar projects in her own home. Seeing her work on this cottage with me the other day was sure proof of that, she was the boss lady and I was the helper!
Knowing how easily I tire, my daughters Melanie and Melissa talked to me about going forward with this construction in a “Zen” way. Work when I have the energy, rest when I need to, and enjoy each step of the process. It’s all about the journey.