Tag: shoulding

• Is Someone Shoulding on you? Are You Shoulding on Yourself?

  One of the words Patricia Evans talks about in her book “The Verbally Abusive Relationship” is the word “should”.  To tell someone they “should” do this, or “should” do that, is a controlling way of communicating.  Shoulding is of the ways we abuse ourselves and others.  Shoulding suggests shame if you don’t do what you…

  micheleballantyne

  August 21, 2016

  Book Reviews, Emotional Health, Physical Health

  anxiety, communication, controlling people, emotional baggage, emotional healing, emotions, Health, Health and Healing, life lessons, nerve pain, Patricia Evans, shame, shoulding, shoulding on others, shoulding yourself, stress, the verbally abusive relationship