I scheduled an appointment with a therapist about a week ago (if I am suffering from conversion disorder, therapy is key in recovery) and one of the things she said to me before we got off the phone was, “I also do medical hypnotism which I think could help you get better.” My first reaction was panic and the thought ran through my head, ‘I don’t want to get better!’
That deserved some exploring. I began by asking myself why I didn’t want to get better. In surrendering deeply to the question and feeling what my core feelings were, I realized that I believed if I got better I would have to do things I don’t want to do . . . like living in Florida again, going to work outside my home away from my children, spending my time fulfilling other people’s expectations of me instead of doing what brings me joy. Those answers were very revealing.
In knowing what was causing me to be afraid of getting well, I also realized that those fears no longer had any foundation. Maybe I needed an excuse in the beginning to move to Oregon, stay home and rest, and do the things that bring me joy, but not any more. I can continue living in a way that brings me joy and not worry about what other people expect, or think, of me.